Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer are an item according to Aniston, but when you aske Mayer, he’ll tell you it’s only a summer fling. Jen must not have saw John gazing into the distance while she was staring into his eyes while they were poolside at Miami’s Mandarin Oriental Hotel.

This one-sided clinginess has raised concerns among Jen’s pals, who fear the 30-year-old singer/songwriter is, well, just not that into her.

“John says that Jen and he have a physical connection as deep as their spiritual one,” a pal of the Grammy winner tells OK!. “But he also said he’s categorizing this as a summer fling for now.”

Looks like Aniston needs to pick movies that doesn’t describe her live, from The Break-Up to He’s Just Not That Into You, movies that doesn’t help with her love life.